my friend once told me a story about her bf and her.she signed in her MSN and zorpia at same time, but her bf offline in MSN, online in zorpia. my friend was totally angry, called her bf immediaterly,required him why he did that, what was this mean. her bf didn't want to explain anything, but also comfirmed his love to her. my friend still adoubt him, till now...

i ask my friend, do you think it is necessary to get a answer from man if he doesn't want to say?offline in MSN, online in zorpia,he must has his own reason. maybe this reason you don't know, which is better than you know.why not give him this freedom to exchange a peaceful life?sometimes too much question, only add more troubles.just keep the calm from surface, you know the reason, he knows the reason, that's enough. 

i have a very good friend in zorpia.he did the same as bf of my friend's.offline in MSN, online in zorpia.the most interesting thing is one girl, who he talked with before in zorpia, she add me in her zorpia. when she saw my page, she was surprised. coz we know the same man.world just is small.when this man knows that, he wants to explain me story between him and her. i just interrupt that. coz i don't need to know. i am not his wife, even  i am his wife, i think it doesn't matter with me, this is his matter.

for me, clever woman won't call her lover all the time, ask the same question'where are you''what are you doing''who are you with' you think you can get a very good answer from him, actually, he can give you any different answers. coz you are not beside him, how do you know the truth? better don't ask this stupit question than get a lie.

some girls want to their lovers with them whole day and whole night,they think this is kind of way to control the lovers. first, i think nobody wants to be controlled by others.second,this kind of control shows that this relationship won't be longer.let's suppose,a man always around you, what's happen in future? no passion, no interesting on you anyway.this called tired of judging beauty.of course, they would like to go to club or pub to taste another cakes.the only reason is to get fresh.

between male and female, relationship is a kind of game. just this kind of game is without winner, the most enjoying part is during the game .aim to understand your partner, know about what kind of way is good for this game rules.of course, this game foundation is trust and love each other. just wonder what kind of love and trust are suitable for male and female.this called sex balance.

it's very difficult to get a answer for freedom to man.coz different men have different freedom needs.to be honest, i think this freedom need from men， for some part，which depends on woman, how much freedom will woman release?then the second question is how many questions will you have?for smart woman, best way is to have a happy freedom for each other. maybe in woman's heart, they care a lot for man;but some woman won't show on face.they use other way to tell man, what you did makes me uncomfortable,use another communication to sovle the man's freedom problem.soon, woman will find a result which is  man will come back by himself, not woman.

this is life mystery,and interesting part.how to really get a man's heart, which depends on how clever woman are.