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ameliayang's Homepage http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:26 EDT Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:26 EDT Zorpia.com Four Body Types: How to Dress http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1844926 <div class="author">By Deirdre Uria, <a href="http://www.kaboose.com/">Kaboose.com</a></div> <div class="bd"><img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 5pt 10px 0pt 0pt" height="376" src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/sh/gr/shopping_fp_100808.jpg" width="250" /> Every female's body is unique, but our overall body shape typically fits into one of the following four categories: apple, pear, plus-size, and boyish. If You Are Apple Shaped: * Don't wear empire-waist tops. * Wear blouses that fit at the bust, but are not too clingy. Menswear is trendy this season and will give you the fit you desire. "The delicate balance of masculine and feminine touches also looks great with suits," writes Suze Yalof Schwartz, of Glamour magazine. * Pay attention to the collars of tops â€” your best bets are v-neck, boat, and collared. "Attention to detail around the neck area elongates the neck," adds Yalof Schwartz. * Match your upper half with pants that are either normal or wide-leg to create the perfect proportion. * Wrap tops and dresses are ideal for your body type â€” thank goodness for the crossover effect. * Invest in a long coat as the weather begins to get a little chilly. * Choose long-lapelled jackets. * Wear darker colors on the bottom, and play with brighter and lighter colors on top. * Don't wear turtlenecks as they make large busts appear larger. * Higher waistlines will pull in any excess weight. * Pair any great outfit with a complimentary pair of shoes, whether they are wedges, flats or chunky heels. <table style="MARGIN: 5pt 10px 0pt 0pt; WIDTH: 234px; HEIGHT: 173px" height="173" cellpadding="5" width="234" align="right"> <tbody> <tr bgcolor="#eeeeee"> <td> More from Kaboose.com <a href="http://just-for-mom.slides.kaboose.com/104-10-ways-to-update-your-fashion-wardrobe">10 Ways to Update Your Fashion Wardrobe</a> <a href="http://just-for-mom.kaboose.com/finding-the-right-pants.html">Finding Perfect Pants for Your Body Type</a> <a href="http://just-for-mom.kaboose.com/beauty-fashion/index.html">Beauty & Style 101</a> </td> </tr> </tbody> </table> If You Are Pear Shaped: * Wear fitted tops â€” knits are a great option â€” to emphasize the smallest part of your body. "Wearing something black and slimming (on top) makes you look small all over," says Yalof Schwartz. * Pair tops with low-rise pants to balance out your complete fall look. * Beware of trousers with side pockets, which just bring more attention to your hip area. * Dress in A-line skirts and dresses that rest around the knee. * Donâ€™t wear anything too clingy on your lower half. * Wear darker bottoms and play with prints, colors, and patterns on the top. * Wear lower and wider necklines to bring draw attention upward. * Invest in a great pair of bootcut or wide leg pants. * Emphasize your fit upper body with sleeveless tops and tees. * Don't laugh, but shoulder pads are ideal to create an hourglass shape. Buy jackets with built-in shoulder pads, or have a tailor sew them in. * Wear handbags above the hip. If You Are Plus-Size: Most plus-size women are hourglass, apple or pear shaped. However, here are some great tips that work for women of every size: *Don't wear oversized clothing, as it will make you larger. The stylish trapeze dresses this fall are not the best option for your body type. * Bring attention to your waist by cinching it at the smallest part with a great scarf or low-slung leather belt. * Play with patterns and color, including metallics, but remember to match the size of the patterns to the body size and the chosen color to your complexion. *Vertical stripes are truly a woman's best friend. *Dress in this season's hottest cardigans, whether one button or three buttons. *Layer your tops to give the illusion of a smaller frame. *Purchase blouses with neckline detail. * Monotone outfits in rich fall colors can be just as effective as wearing all black to create a slimming look. * Try shopping online to find more options for fuller-figured women. *Invest in proper undergarments and body shapers, if you feel necessary. * Pair any outfit with a thin high-heeled shoe. * Wear clothes with a little bit of stretch. * Choose wide-leg pants with a long hem that cover all but the front of your shoe. If You Have a Boyish Figure: * Bring attention to your natural curves. * Steer clear of cropped clothing and go for clothing that will elongate you. * Pick items that are voluminous, including trapeze dresses and baby doll blouses. * Dress with ruffles, ruching and detailing around the bust. * Wear skirts because girl you've got the body for them - pencil skirts are our favorite for this season. * You want to make your waist defined to trick the eye into thinking you are curvier than you might be. * You can go crazy with patterns and textures, so wear the popular tweed and plaid this fall. * Dress in color. * Try spaghetti straps to bring attention to your neck and shoulders. * Purchase straighter leg/classic shaped jeans and trousers. * Make friends with the v-neck collar, as it is the universal collar for all body types. * Show a little skin.     From Yahoo news,Shopping. :) </div> Beauty & Fashion http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1844926 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 06:26 EDT It's all coming back to me now. http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1840769 <pre>There were nights when the wind was so cold That my body froze in bed If I just listened to it Right outside the window There were days when the sun was so cruel That all the tears turned to dust And I just knew my eyes were Drying up forever I finished crying in the instant that you left And I can't remember where or when or how And I banished every memory you and I had ever made But when you touch me like this And you hold me like that I just have to admit That it's all coming back to me When I touch you like this And I hold you like that It's so hard to believe but It's all coming back to me (It's all coming back, it's all coming back to me now) There were moments of gold And there were flashes of light There were things I'd never do again But then they'd always seemed right There were nights of endless pleasure It was more than any laws allow Baby Baby If I kiss you like this And if you whisper like that It was lost long ago But it's all coming back to me If you want me like this And if you need me like that It was dead long ago But it's all coming back to me It's so hard to resist And it's all coming back to me I can barely recall But it's all coming back to me now But it's all coming back But you were history with the slamming of the door And I made myself so strong again somehow And I never wasted any of my time on you since then But if I touch you like this And if you kiss me like that It was so long ago But it's all coming back to me If you touch me like this And if I kiss you like that It was gone with the wind But it's all coming back to me (It's all coming back, it's all coming back to me now) There were moments of gold And there were flashes of light There were things we'd never do again But then they'd always seemed right There were nights of endless pleasure It was more than all your laws allow Baby, Baby, Baby When you touch me like this And when you hold me like that It was gone with the wind But it's all coming back to me When you see me like this And when I see you like that Then we see what we want to see All coming back to me The flesh and the fantasies All coming back to me I can barely recall But it's all coming back to me now If you forgive me all this If I forgive you all that We forgive and forget And it's all coming back to me (It's all coming back to me now) And when you kiss me like this (It's all coming back to me now) And when i touch you like that (It's all coming back to me now) If you do it like this (It's all coming back to me now) And if we ...</pre> Music http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1840769 Mon, 29 Sep 2008 07:57 EDT What's left of me----Nick Lachey http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1840212 Watch my life Pass me by In the rear view mirror Pictures frozen in time Are becoming clearer I donâ€™t wanna waste another day Stuck in the shadow of my mistakes Yeah Cause I want you And I feel you Crawling underneath my skin Like a hunger like a burning To find a place Iâ€™ve never been Now Iâ€™m broken and Iâ€™m fading Iâ€™m half the man I thought I would be But you can have whatâ€™s left of me Iâ€™ve been dying inside Little by little No where to go but going out of my mind In endless circles Running from myself until You gave me a reason for standing still And I want you and I feel you Crawling underneath my skin Like a hunger like a burning To find a place Iâ€™ve never been Now Iâ€™m broken and Iâ€™m fading Iâ€™m half the man I thought I would be But you can have whatâ€™s left of me Falling faster Barely breathing Give me something to believe in Tell me itâ€™s not all in my head Take whatâ€™s left of this man Make me whole once again Cause I want you and I feel you Crawling underneath my skin Like a hunger like a burning To find a place Iâ€™ve never been Now Iâ€™m broken and Iâ€™m fading Iâ€™m half the man I thought I would be You can have all thatâ€™s left Yeah yeah yeah Whatâ€™s left of me Iâ€™ve been dying inside you see Iâ€™m going outta my mind, outta my mind Iâ€™m just running in circles all the time Will you take whatâ€™s left, Will you take whatâ€™s left, Will you take whatâ€™s left Just running in circles in my mind Will you take whatâ€™s left Will you take whatâ€™s left Will you take whatâ€™s left Take whatâ€™s left of me Music http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1840212 Sat, 27 Sep 2008 07:11 EDT Dating Diaries: Ten Dating Red Flags http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1837926 <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> by Rich Santos, Marie Claire,  on Fri Sep 12, 2008 8:07am PDT<ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> When determining if you should let things get serious, remember: actions speak louder than words. With that being said, here are ten dating red flags. If you see any of these, do yourself a favor and reconsider if it's worth it for you.</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">1. You are not on the VIP list for breaking news</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Were you the last to learn about this person's job promotion or newborn niece or nephew? Once things are serious, you should be among the first to know about exciting news, or bad news.</ul> <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul> <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">2. They avoid meeting your family or friends</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">If they are shying away from meeting your friends or family consistently, then there are problems. Even if they are very shy, they should want to meet those who are important to you.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> 3. They don't make any sacrifices</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Healthy relationships don't require bending over backwards all the time, but a certain amount of sacrifice is necessary in a selfless union. When two of my friends first started dating one another, she demanded that he go to Farm Aid for her birthday, which was also the opening NFL football Sunday. While all the guys gathered to watch the games, he was sweltering on some field attending Farm Aid -- an event he never would have gone to if she hadn't have invited him. Now that's sacrifice.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">4. They can't fit in your future</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">I admit it. When I meet girls, I envision future moments I may some day share with them. Most of my scenarios are her with me and my family at a Thanksgiving holiday or at a summer crabfeast. If I'm really into her, I usually relish the thought. If not, I kinda cringe.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">5. They are too controlling</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">It's scary but I've seen many relationships where guys forbid girls to hang out with certain friends, or wear certain clothes. Major problem if someone is controlling you and not allowing you to be who you want to be within a relationship.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">6. The "what are we" conversation fails miserably</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Almost every relationship hits that crossroads where you both decide if it's worth taking the plunge into being exclusive and calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. If they are confused and surprised that you're ready to get serious, the timing is not right, and you should try to figure out how long you want to wait around until they are ready.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> 7. They talk about plans that don't involve you</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">My sister has major wanderlust. She's always talking about heading off to Chicago or living in London for a year. She often talks about these things with no regard for the fact that she has a boyfriend at the time. If you find that someone is making plans or talking about far off places without inviting you along for the ride, don't let yourself get too into this person.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">8. Your friends or family don't like them</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Remember that your friends and family know you best. Don't take their thoughts with a grain of salt. It's one thing if a person or two don't get along with your significant other, but if a lot of them are saying you should reconsider, then do it. Unfortunately, we often find out about how much our friends hated that person after this person is gone.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> 9. They violated your trust</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Whether it's cheating or a little lie that they got caught in, it will be hard to regain trust. Trust is something we don't give away easily, and once it's gone it's hard to get it back. We'll always be wondering about that lie, and doubt will creep in more and more as our minds fixate on that lie. Too often, people take trust for granted and once they lose it they never get it back.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">10. You practice "unbalanced dating"</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Are you always seeing his friends or doing things that he wants to do? Do you just let him pick the restaurants and events? Or is it the other way around? Relationships are fun when you are both able to contribute. If you're not taking turns creating fun times together, it will most likely fizzle out.</ul>  <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">What would you add to the list? Ever been a victim of any of these red flags?</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul> <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">Posted by Rich </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul> <ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; ">From Yahoo.Shine from Yahoo.Special thanks for Yahoo.  :)</ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: block; float: left; "> </ul><div> </div></ul> Romance & Relationships http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1837926 Fri, 19 Sep 2008 03:55 EDT 6 Food Mistakes Parents Make http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1837549 Dieting in front of your children Kids are tuned into their parentsâ€™ eating preferences and are far more likely to try foods if they see their mother or father eating them. A Rutgers study of parent and child food preferences found that preschoolers tended to like or reject the same fruits and vegetables their parents liked or didnâ€™t like. And other research has shown girls are more likely to be picky eaters if their mothers donâ€™t like vegetables. Given this powerful effect, parents who are trying to lose weight should be aware of how their dieting habits can influence a childâ€™s perceptions about food and healthful eating. In one study of 5-year-old girls, one child noted that dieting involved drinking chocolate milkshakes â€” her mother was using Slim-Fast drinks. Another child said dieting meant â€œyou fix food but you donâ€™t eat it.â€A 2005 report in the journal Health Psychology found that mothers who were preoccupied with their weight and eating were more likely to restrict foods for their daughters or encourage them to lose weight. Daughters of dieters were also more likely to try diets as well. The problem is, restrictive diets donâ€™t work for most people and often lead to <a href="http://health.nytimes.com/health/guides/symptoms/binge-eating/overview.html?inline=nyt-classifier" title="In-depth reference and news articles about Binge eating." style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline; ">binge eating</a> and weight gain. By exposing young children to erratic dieting habits, parents may be putting them at risk for <a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/news/health/diseasesconditionsandhealthtopics/eatingdisorders/index.html?inline=nyt-classifier" title="Recent and archival health news about eating disorders." style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline; ">eating disorders</a> or a lifetime of chronic dieting. â€œMost mothers donâ€™t think their kids are soaking up this information, but they are,â€ Dr. Birch said. â€œTheyâ€™re teaching it to their daughters even though it doesnâ€™t work for them.â€  Serving boring vegetables Calorie-counting parents often serve plain steamed vegetables, so itâ€™s no wonder children are reluctant to eat them. Nutritionists say parents shouldnâ€™t be afraid to dress up the vegetables. Adding a little butter, ranch dressing, cheese sauce or brown sugar to a vegetable dish can significantly improve its kid appeal. And adding a little fat to vegetables helps unlock their fat-soluble nutrients. The few extra <a href="http://health.nytimes.com/health/guides/nutrition/diet-calories/overview.html?inline=nyt-classifier" title="In-depth reference and news articles about Diet - calories." style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline; ">calories</a> youâ€™re adding are a worthwhile tradeoff for the nutritional boost and the chance to introduce a child to a vegetable.  Giving up too soon Ms. Worobey said she has often heard parents say, â€œMy kid would never eat that.â€ While it may be true right now, she noted that eating preferences often change. So parents should keep preparing a variety of healthful foods and putting them on the table, even if a child refuses to take a bite. In young children, it may take 10 or more attempts over several months to introduce a food.Sibling dynamics and friendships can also change a childâ€™s eating habits. Dr. Birch of Penn State noted that her first child was always willing to try new foods, but that her second child was not. â€œPart of it was just him defining his place in the family,â€ she said. By the age of 10 or 11, he didnâ€™t want to be outdone by his sister and was far more willing to try new foods.Susan B. Roberts, a <a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/organizations/t/tufts_university/index.html?inline=nyt-org" title="More articles about Tufts University" style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline; ">Tufts University</a> nutritionist and co-author of the book â€œFeeding Your Child for Lifelong Health,â€ suggested a â€œrule of 15â€ â€” putting a food on the table at least 15 times to see if a child will accept it. Once a food is accepted, parents should use â€œfood bridges,â€ finding similarly colored or flavored foods to expand the variety of foods a child will eat. If a child likes pumpkin pie, for instance, try mashed sweet potatoes and then mashed carrots. If a child loves corn, try mixing in a few peas or carrots. Even if a child picks them out, the exposure to the new food is what counts.â€œAs parents, youâ€™re going to make decisions as to what you want to serve,â€ Ms. Worobey said. â€œBut then you just have to relax and realize children are different from day to day.â€ Special thanks to Yahoo and nytimes.com ! :)   Personal http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1837549 Thu, 18 Sep 2008 02:29 EDT 6 Food Mistakes Parents Make http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1837117 <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span"><nyt_byline type=" " version="1.0"><div style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(128, 128, 128); font-size: 80%;" class="byline">By <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: none;" title="More Articles by Tara Parker-Pope" href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/people/p/tara_parkerpope/index.html?inline=nyt-per">TARA PARKER-POPE</a></div></nyt_byline><div style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-weight: normal; color: rgb(128, 128, 128); font-size: 80%;" class="timestamp">Published: September 14, 2008  <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 22px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span">HARRIET WOROBEY, a childhood <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="In-depth reference and news articles about Diet and Nutrition." href="http://health.nytimes.com/health/guides/specialtopic/food-guide-pyramid/overview.html?inline=nyt-classifier">nutrition</a> instructor, knows firsthand that children can be picky eaters, but even she was surprised by a preschooler last year who ate a mostly <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="More articles about chocolate." href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/subjects/c/chocolate/index.html?inline=nyt-classifier">chocolate</a> diet.<div style="display: block; margin-top: 4px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; float: left; margin-right: 15px ! important;" class="inlineLeft" id="articleInline"> <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 22px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span">â€œChocolate milk, chocolate chip muffins, chocolate chip pancakes â€” it was unbelievable,â€ said Ms. Worobey, director of the <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="More articles about Rutgers" href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/organizations/r/rutgers_the_state_university/index.html?inline=nyt-org">Rutgers University</a>Nutritional Sciences Preschool in New Brunswick, N.J. â€œHis mother just thought, â€˜Thatâ€™s what he wants, so thatâ€™s what Iâ€™m going to do.â€™ â€While most parents havenâ€™t resorted to the chocolate diet, they can relate to the daily challenge of finding foods that children will eat. Although <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="In-depth reference and news articles about Obesity." href="http://health.nytimes.com/health/guides/symptoms/obesity/overview.html?inline=nyt-classifier">obesity</a> dominates the national discussion on childhood health, many parents are also worried that their childâ€™s preferred diet of nuggets and noodles could lead to a nutritional deficit.Fussiness about food is a normal part of a childâ€™s development. Young children are naturally neophobic â€” they have a distrust of the new. Even the most determined parents can be cowed by a childâ€™s resolve to eat nothing rather than try something new. As a result, parents often give in, deciding that a bowl of Cocoa Puffs or a Pop-Tart, while not ideal, must be better than no food at all.  <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 22px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span">â€œI think parents feel like itâ€™s their job to just make their children eat something,â€ Ms. Worobey said. â€œBut itâ€™s really their job to serve a variety of healthy foods and get their children exposed to foods.â€A series of simple meal-time strategies can help even the pickiest eater learn to like a more varied diet. Hereâ€™s a look at six common mistakes parents make when feeding their children.Sending children out of the kitchen With hot stoves, boiling water and sharp knives at hand, it is understandable that parents donâ€™t want children in the kitchen when theyâ€™re making dinner. But studies suggest that involving children in meal preparation is an important first step in getting them to try new foods. <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 22px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span">Researchers at Teachers College at <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="More articles about Columbia University." href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/organizations/c/columbia_university/index.html?inline=nyt-org">Columbia University</a>studied how cooking with a child affects the childâ€™s eating habits. In one study, nearly 600 children from kindergarten to sixth grade took part in a nutrition curriculum intended to get them to eat more vegetables and whole grains. Some children, in addition to having lessons about healthful eating, took part in cooking workshops. The researchers found that children who had cooked their own foods were more likely to eat those foods in the cafeteria, and even ask for seconds, than children who had not had the cooking class.When children are involved in meal preparation, â€œthey come to at least try the food,â€ said Isobel Contento, professor of nutrition education at Teachers College and a co-author of the study. â€œKids donâ€™t usually like radishes, but we found that if kids cut up radishes and put them in the salad, they love the radishes.â€Pressuring them to take a bite Demanding that a child eat at least one bite of everything seems reasonable, but itâ€™s likely to backfire. <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 22px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span">Studies show that children react negatively when parents pressure them to eat foods, even if the pressure offers a reward. In one study at <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="More articles about Pennsylvania State University" href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/organizations/p/pennsylvania_state_university/index.html?inline=nyt-org">Pennsylvania State University</a>, researchers asked children to eat vegetables and drink milk, offering them stickers and television time if they did. Later in the study, the children expressed dislike for the foods they had been rewarded for eating.â€œParents say things like â€˜eat your vegetables and you can watch TV,â€™ but we know that kind of thing doesnâ€™t work either,â€ said Leann L. Birch, director of Penn Stateâ€™s childhood obesity research center and a co-author of the study. â€œIn the short run, you might be able to coerce a child to eat, but in the long run, they will be less likely to eat those foods.â€The better approach is to put the food on the table and encourage a child to try it. But donâ€™t complain if she refuses, and donâ€™t offer praise if she tastes it. Just ask her if she wants some more or take seconds yourself, but try to stay neutral.Keeping â€˜good stuffâ€™ out of reach Parents worry that children will binge on treats, so they often put them out of sight or on a high shelf. But a large body of research shows that if a parent restricts a food, children just want it more.In another Penn State study, researchers experimented to determine whether forbidden foods were more desirable. Children were seated at tables and given unlimited access to plates of apple or peach cookie bars â€” two foods the youngsters had rated as â€œjust O.K.â€ in earlier taste tests. With another group, some bars were served on plates, while some were placed in a clear cookie jar in the middle of the table. The children were told that after 10 minutes, they could snack on <a style="color: rgb(0, 66, 118); text-decoration: underline;" title="More articles about cookies." href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/subjects/c/cookies/recipes/index.html?inline=nyt-classifier">cookies</a> from the jar. <span style="border-collapse: separate; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Georgia; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 22px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px;" class="Apple-style-span">The researchers found that restricting the cookies had a profound effect: consumption more than tripled compared with when the cookies were served on plates.Other studies show that children whose food is highly restricted at home are far more likely to binge when they have access to forbidden foods.The lesson for parents? Donâ€™t bring foods that you feel the need to restrict into the house. Instead, buy healthful snacks and give children free access to the food cabinets. From Yahoo news.  Continue................to next article.... <div style="width: 190px;" id="inlineBox"> </div></div>  </div> Personal http://search.zorpia.com/ameliayang/journal/1837117 Tue, 16 Sep 2008 14:02 EDT Continue... 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