What we gonna do when the one that we love leave us :( ?

Just sleep and cry.

this is what i do and dont know when will stop

healing the heart takes time.. still loving them doesn't have to change but the relationship does.. learn to let go.. live and let live.. be happy they are happy (even if it's not with you).. that's what true love is to me, being able to let go and wish well to the one you love even when they dont love you... thus forgive them for all the hurt they've caused you, love them anyways, and let them go.. (dating again is a good idea too)


good luck :) peace :)

so difficult to let them go when we still fall in love with them
but what can we do, we cant force them to back again to us

thank u, good advice from u .. ill learn all that
i wish i can to let him go

i know it's hard, but you cant make someone love you.. all you have control over is the love you feel (and sometimes you even feel that is out of your control).. and it's just my opinion.. but i feel if i realllllly love someone i want them to be happy.. even if it's not with me.. so if it's freedom they want, it's freedom they'll have..

so hard.. sometimes i think that i cant pass this time
but i need the same like u
i wish he will never ever feel this hurt and this pain like what i feel coz i know this is so hard
i wish he can be happy even without me
it coz i love him .. so ill try to let him go and keep move on :)

best of luck to you sweety.. hope your days pass quickly until the time you feel your over him :)

thank u sis ill try and try again to pass this days without him
ill try to let him go to do his life and ill do my life
many kisses and hug for u sis

*big tight hugs* .. no thanks needed sis.. GOD Bless You !

just keep yourself busy from work,,or do anything,,days will passed by,,it's good to let someone go..than to force or keep a relationship that doesn't work at all..you will learn about love and how to handle it next time you feel in love..bear in mind there's someone out their are more deserving..and be open minded..

i make my self busy by working and get new friends in here
i need prove him that i can move on without him

that's right,you don't wanna be stack in past..just keep your head up no matter what..and show that your strong..and it his lost why he left you..alright..take care girl and good luck for the next love..

dating again is a good idea too ~~~~~ the best idea lol

oh no .. not as soon
still cant forget him .. lol

yup it helps :)

feelings hurt, sad, betrayed that s*it will paralyze you, you have to gain mental strengh and move on.....its like you have to become accepting to the situation and not let your feelings control your life......Mentaly change your thoughts

what u said if what i've got
my feelings control my life then will make me so weak
try to move on but its difficult and hard
what i have is tears and tears only

that's why i tell you change your thoughts in your head, of course it will take time...

great idea blah blah :D.. consciously change your thoughts too.. how you ask? - look in the mirror and tell yourself "today i'm going to be ok without him, today i'm going to do something to make ME feel better, today i am going to let go and move on" .. doing something like this may help you too sweety

i do that now and try smiling when i asking my self .. lol
at least this will help me to forget him as soon as possible
love u allllllllllllllll .. mmuuaaahhhhh

love you back :D mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmwah!

its cool, all things happen for a reason......

that mirror s**t dont work with me.....

try forget it and start again by my self

i do but i just cant :(

try and try and try
you can do it
say just that i can do it

yessss

yessss I CAN DO IT

isa :)

insya ALLAH :)

get new one,end of story.

get new one will not healing my heart
coz i still loving him

a bleeding heart ia hard to mend,it takes time sometimes years,but as said never hate!!

bleeding is bleeding never feel heal even we will pass the time
but as u said never feel hate :D
thanks for join with me in here

your wellcome
the best love that you can get is egyptian love???
make some friends think!!!!!

the best love what i ever get from egyptian man
i never feel love like what he gave to me
i never though this before this love will the end
but i wish i can come there one day

what you seek you will find Koran !!!
never give up you are 28 i'm 20 years older,am i know what true egyptian love is I was 27 years married to an egyptian and that was on first sight.

yes he have truth love thats why i cant forget him
i get so much love when i was with him
11 days without him its hard coz all time always with him
he said he left me coz he need me to be happy
he said when he with me its only make me sad
he think ill be happy without him
but ill take this, hes gone now i cant do anything more

so ure married with egyptian ? this mean u know what kind of egyptian man
very jealousing man, so much in love and romantic sometimes like fighting .. lol

i was married to an egyptian man yes but Allah take him away from me.From this day (6) years my heart is bleeding.
you can see maybe your lost love but i have only memories and fotos.this is why i say to you hold on to your love even if he is awy from you ,if he see you are more unhappy then maybe he will come back to you agaian.If not hold his love in your heart dont hate and try to live without him.start anew life if you can and cherrish all moments.

oh im sorry coz u get that :(
i was thinking in that too
i stay keep his love inside my hearts
i stay waiting him and stay crying and sad so much
i stay in so many way just to get him back
i cant even think how to live without him
coz we've got so many dreams and we need make this dream will come true
and im sure that oneday he will back again to me
i believe that he love me so much
last time fight, before he left he said that to me and ill keep that
but after today, after i get so many advice from all of u
after i share about this in this pic
im not sure that he will back
so ill keep move on and do my life like before i met him
and i wish he can do his life without feel this hurt like me
its hard to forget him, but i cant force him to back again if he wont
but be sure ill always loving him not only for now but will be forever
even now ill try to be happy without him :)

thank u sis to make me strong .. kisses

your wellcome any time,Keep your dreams hold them in your memories for ever.
time will tell and Allah will show you the way
Add your self to my page if you want i will be very happy to help you any time and i will answer you

Allah watch over you keep you safe my sister
Bussa Janett.

ill .. be sure ill add my self to ur page
ill be glade if i have sister like u
i believe in ALLAH .. HE will show me what ill get in the future
i still have that hope even i have to try hard to forgive him
love u sis

hi my sweet friend .. my sis .. remember me ?? how r u ? missing u so much :D

I dunno :(

its ok
i know what ill do now :)

Just remember the sex may be the only bond for you, to him. And that there are other potential mates out there, that will amplify your love, for life itself and the world. Once he dumps u, and that new love comes into your life, your life takes a greater meaning...

pray...its comforting...

i do and i cry and speak to ALLAH
im sure HE will protect my by this feeling
thank u :)

I believe only God can heal such brokeness...

cry.
travel to other countries in order not to see him again.
focus on work until you are tired then sleep, leave yourself no time to think of him.

travel ? well this need much money for sure
i spend my money for pay this hospital .. lol
anyway thanks for advice

that happened to me 2 days ago...i sleep,cry, go out, drink, and try to distract myself the most i can! But it is very hard let me tell you. Wounds heal slowly though...well if you wanna....

2 days a go, i cry since 12 days a go
but still not feel good till now

well its gonna take sometime but you also need to let it go now...its not worth crying let me tell you.

ill let him go no doubt
i have to respect his choice

might be better to kill myself..or just look for another one...

kill ur self ? oh no .. ill never think in that

hahaha..i know aint that crazy? i will never do that either i better look for some one else rather than feel sorry fo myself...

lol .. thats good
get someone else more better than kill ur self
but for me .. i think i cant he he he

but sweetie, in my experienced that i have been used for so many trimes get cheated on and get hurt more than once i guess if people or some one i loved left me it wont matter anymore i made myself tough for any other thing that is to come...

but jewel, this is first time i get like this
i mean my bf never left me before but i always did..lol
and now i never though this before when he left me like this

sorry sweetie, but some times we have to face tha fact that men are stubborn and sucks lol.. life is not always happiness and pleasure life is what me make it..be strong you can do it..i promise you you will survive the pain and you will see you will be stronger than before...

thank u for ur support jewel
ill try that always .. im sure that i can
today i can smile and not cry no more
im tyred with this feeling always cry and sad
i cant even think about my self
but like ur promise .. i promise too that i can do it :)

good girl...now be happy keep yourself together and lets talk bout some thing else

sure ill be happy as u said
hmm what we gonna talk ? any an idea ? :D

well lets talk about your country i vwe been in cairo

Life is good...If you go after someone who can't be mature enough to not generalize you..Take one hand off their giant ego..Stop thinking they know everything for two seconds..And finish a relationship properly, with none of these bad feelings leftover..
What's the point...Most just only want to hurt

i think this always happened if we fall in love on net
we think that we know so much the person coz we speak often with them and maybe all day we spend the time with them
but we didnt know the fact, they say loving us and need to be with us forever
but this words only we get it just for a while
after few weeks or fews months they forget what they saying
this not happened only to me, thats why when i put this topic i feel better coz im not alone to pass this bad time
so many people in here can make me strong even u know its hard for me

will get drunk & say f*ck it lol

ive been dating a man for 5 months, i love him with al my heart and soul bt he might soon move to afghanistan to work there and i cant go there u know..

i dont wanna think how my life wil be if he goes.. the crying is normal bt i guess i wil just hv 2 accept it and move on.. not move on to another guy though coz that the LAST thing i need.. rebound.. bt for now im enjoyin every moment with him and hoping he doesnt move and if he does we wil stil keep in touch. who says it has to end? afghan isnt a country u can stay for years, so if all goes well when he returns, we can still go back to what we are now.. im not giving up that easily.. bt i dont wanna think of the day he will leave.. (if he will)..

ill learn this from u, thank u des :)

we humans differ - so everyone deals in his/her own way - but in the end we usually swallow the painful outcome -*LOVE is Always Great When Couples Forever Love Each Other*but *Very Painful When One Makes Love To Die* :(

just u need to cry and try to think that it happend for something good, maybe he/she wasnt for u

move on..

its difficult to move on without the one that we love
when all the time was to be with them

it's really difficult but at least try to move on.. you can't spend the rest of your life feeling miserable..

ya ure right, i start feel tyred with this feeling
sad .. cry .. cant do anything even just think about my self i just cant
ill try move on .. thank u mary

at first i thought i can't do it.. but im all good now :)

enjoy your life.. it's too short to be wasted on some as*holes

i think like u too
i though that i cant do this
but i dont know if i can pass this time
plz pray for me i wish i can

if you're determined to do it then im pretty sure that you can..

make to move on

i wish i could, but i just cant