hmm..can you blame the media? for impersonating characters with personalities that we so admire?bad boys.

and yes..i love Chuck Bass in Gossip Girl.

and yes. i love what they would call it. assholes. jerks. well..bad boys.

i m addicted to assholes. 

us girls...are most definitely attracted to bad boys...why is that so? they are mean, bad and no good at all. why oh why? for the simple fact. that we love the chase of the game. well..everyone loves it. cant deny it. cant you? and good guys...they are just well..too nice..and always there for us..thats the problem...its just human nature to explore something that is foreign to us. we are so bored with life that we want some excitement in our life. and bad guys..they provide the excitement in life that we can never experience. they convince us that we are important, perfected our flaws, increase our confidence, make us feel like a queen. yea..if they ignore us more, we get even addicted to it. they are like our love drug. its their charm that faint our heart,  make us crave for more..

well..the chase is fun..until..you felt deeper into it..and you lose out in the end. it felt like loosing control of your car...and crashing down the hill..

why us girls need men to tell us or define us as who we are? Girls! Stand proud! and be confident about yourself!