fantasies. Each fantasy has its own unique feeling, tone, and theme.
Some people have simple fantasies, yet others elaborate their romantic dreams with many sophisticated details. There is one thing in common with all romantic fantasies, however. It is desiring something that you don't already have in your life and that can only come true with a romantic partner.

Fantasies provide peace of mind and escape from the real world, and romantic fantasies in particluar serve as a vehicle to a more satisfying sex life. Fantasies put people in touch with their sensuality, while also allowing them to become more comfortable with themselves and their relationships.

Women tend to be more sensual and romantic, relying on soft lighting, scented candles and slow music to set the mood. When most women fantasize about making love, it is often with a focus on their current partner (though sometimes someone unattainable, famous, etc. may creep into the mind's eye.) Location and setting play important roles as well, and the emotional connection is critical in most cases.

For some women, the ultimate fantasy is just spending time with the one they love. As one woman revealed, "I have the occasional naughty fantasies, but more than anything, I think about being curled up in his arms."

Sharing Your Fantasy

Very often, both partners in a relationship have fantasies they would like to share with their partners, but they don't reveal them. Fantasies evoke strong emotions and revealing them can make you vulnerable. Therefore, fantasies are usually kept private. To present your secret thoughts to someone can take courage.

It is easy and comfortable to assume that revealing your fantasies will not be appreciated by your partner. Although no one can read another person's mind, most people think their partner would not want to live out a fantasy with them.

Tell Your Partner What You Want

How to tell your partner about your romantic fantasies?

All you have to do is be clear about what you want and then tell your partner. Yes, this may sound easier to do than it is, but what do you have to lose? If you have someone who loves you, that person may be more eager to make you happy than you think.

Try This:
Write your fantasy down in one sentence. Have your partner write his or her fantasy down as well.
Now that you have written it down, you should be clear about what you want.
The next step is to share the fantasy with your partner. Go ahead, you will be surprised who easily fantasies can become reality!

Remember, your sensual and romantic thoughts can become reality if you share them with your love. Enjoy!

Has your love life lost some of its heat and spark? Try arousing some interest by playing sexy and romantic games that will get you in the mood. Sometimes it takes something as simple as being playful to let go of stress and hang ups and get you in the mood for romance and passion. As adults with responsibilities we often forget that we need to have play time. Like the Lover�s Lane commercial says, �Lovers that play together, stay together.�

There are many games available for you to purchase at adult stores like Lover�s Lane or at many adult websites that sell sex toys or novelty items. If you don�t want to purchase a game you can make up your own or you can add a sexual twist to any regular game. I�m sure you�ve heard of strip poker, well how about strip Yatzee, Rummy, Pin Ball, Badminton, Ping Pong or any game. Loser has to take off an item of clothing or you can always up the stakes and make the game a lot sexier by saying the loser has to perform some type of task like give a fifteen minute massage or you can get as racy and sexy as you feel comfortable with.

If you want to make your own games one easy game you can make is to take some index cards and write sexy commands or instructions on them. Put a number on the back side of each card to correspond with numbers on dice. The number of the dice rolled will match a card number and the roller has to perform the action the card says. You can even make two piles of cards, his and hers. Use your imagination to come up with creative games or sexy twists you can put on the games you have in your closet.

Instead of having �date night� you can have the adult version of �game night�. Try something new and see where it leads.

Some Games Available at Adult Stores and Websites:

SexXxWeb is a board game that has assignments like revealing sexual fantasies, removing items of clothing and performing sexual acts on each other.

Naughty-N-Nice is a board game that has instructional cards that tell you to do things like �whisper something dirty to your lover� and �remove your lover�s clothing with your teeth�.

SexDrive is a board game that challenges sexual know-how, show-how and tell-how. Players answer questions or perform tasks and can collect certificates of knowledge. Land in the Body Shop and you�ll have to use hands on skills to demonstrate your sexual expertise.

Sexy Dice come in many forms with suggestions on one die like �lick�, �suck�, �squeeze�, �massage�, �kiss�, etc and the other die has body parts listed like �finger�, �toe�, �neck�, �lips�, �chest�, �?�, or �player�s choice�. Some types have pictures on the dice to illustrate actions and some have more steamy suggestions for you to perform.

Pick up lines that are romantic, sweet, sexy and funny.

Can you give me directions to your heart?
I've seemed to have lost myself in your eyes.

Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?

Is it hot in here, or is it just you?

Do you believe in love at first sight... or should I walk by you again?

Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?

Something tells me you're sweet. Can I have a sample?

Do you mind if I stare at you up close instead of from across the room?

If I had a rose for every time I thought of you, I would be walking through my garden forever.

If beauty were time, you'd be eternity.

I'd ask you for a light, but you've already lit my fire.

I don't dance. But I'd love to hold you while you do.

You look like a girl who has heard every pick up line in the book, so what's one more going to hurt?

Baby, you're so sweet, you put Hershey's outta business.

There's so much to say but your eyes keep interrupting me.

If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together.

If I told you you have a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?

May we kiss those we please, and please those we kiss?

A curved line is the loveliest distance between two points.

Just call me milk, I'll do your body good.

That sweater looks nice on you but it would look nicer crumpled up beside my bed.

Excuse me is your last name Gillette? ...because you are the best a man can get!

Your lips are kinda wrinkled. Mind if I press them?

If I gave you a sexy negligee, would there be anything in it for me?

Clothes aren't sexy. Women are.

Please be patient - this is my first time.

All those curves, and me with no brakes.

You can't be real. May I pinch you to see if I'm dreaming?

Gee, that's a nice set of legs, what time do they open?